Every second adult in BiH lives with his mother and father

Četrdesettrogodišnji Banja Luka Vojin L. lives with his father and mother in an apartment of 70 square meters in the center of the city. There is no steady job, never married and has no descendants. When his father was at his age, in your book had an experience of 15 years, his wife and two children in puberty, her own apartment and serious plans for the future. Vojin explains that the main reason why more parents the fact that he was there "nice and safe", as it states in no way motivated to become independent. perpetual kids - When I've met this year, unmarried, I would never even start a family. Honestly, I had a lot of women in my life and dealt with serious business, but I'm now in the same phase of life in which I have been following the acquisition of majority. I have no assets to his name, nor his family, other than parents, with whom I live. They do not bother me, nor I them. While I was in the twenties, they kept pushing me to get married and do something in life. Now, I guess, and they give up and do not take more of such discussions - told Vojin. However, his story is not alone in our society. Though there are no institutions in BiH dealing with such broad and detailed social analysis, it is estimated be, taking into account the data from the region, that every other adult between 20 and 35 still live with their mother and father. Approximately half of them have a desire to own, but not the conditions that would make it possible, while the rest of the matches live the family nest. latter group, and some experts consider them to be, and the phenomenon, called the Peter Pan generation - people who do not want to grow up to be women or married, raise a loan, making plans about his career and the like. According to the psychologists, just when someone is separated from their parents, can be considered an adult, mature personality, and therefore estimate that half of the people in the middle years are, in fact, "eternal children."Statistics show that each year age for BiH citizens come marriage shifts for about half a year. With us women at the conclusion of his first marriage, have an average of 26.5 years, and men close to 30, so it shifted and borders in the years when children receive. According to the Institute of Statistics, the oldest groom in BiH 2011th had as many as 88 years! Falling birthrates Experiences lawyer confirmed that life in the community increasingly common reason for divorce, and the requirements for divorce is often stated that one of the spouses could not stand this life or disagreed with the mother in law or mother in law. Sociologist from East Sarajevo Biljana Milosevic explains herself dealt with similar research and came to the conclusion that the key is never just one factor, but several of them complement each other and pervasive. - First, financial and economic situation in BiH society is very difficult and among the youth unemployment rate, while the right job security should be one of the basic preconditions for starting an independent life. On the other hand, when a man sneaks into this lifestyle, begins to prolong things, the completion of college, job search, start a family and so forth. Also, the general dissatisfaction often dictates behaviors that they themselves could not believe that, in the end, so turn out - explained Milosevic. Psychologist Alexander Milic said that the reason for all long staying "eternal child" hiding in growing up in a family with strong oversight and insufficient aktivizaciju.  This adds Milic, children in our community, developing too strict mode control, which has resulted in a growing number of adults who continue to remain living with their parents. - These are mostly for mature people, who as children were supersaturated. With them was created a sense that they do not have to fight for a living too. Demotivated are probably the fact that they are unemployed, and all the consequences of the lack of proper development - Milic says. He adds that it results in an increasing decline in population in BiH, because such persons are less likely to decide to marry. All depends on the circumstances

Hadžimustafić: Relative thing

Although much younger than Banja Luka from the beginning of the text, 27-year-old Admir Hadžimustafić from Tuzla lives in the family home with their parents. Student's final year journalism in Tuzla, a way of life which is accustomed to live for now it suits him. All in good time, says Hadžimustafić. - It's all relative matter how long someone will live in the community with parents. In my opinion, there is no independence for some prescribed age limit and it all depends on the circumstances. Then when I feel that I need to become independent, it'll do.I'm pretty young, and currently I enjoy it. I've been jobless too, but do not ask for it, because I'm at the end of the study - says Hadžimustafić and adds to independence, unfortunately, in most cases in BiH depends on the job.