12 subtle signs REVEALS: YOUR PARTNER IS NO LONGER IN LOVE
All we have to find one in such a situation: long-term relationship, a serious relationship, connection for life ... And then suddenly you are no longer sure whether the urn that relationship or marriage last until tomorrow morning.Reader's Digest brings 12 subtle signs by which you can discover how your partner is in love with you - or how not.
1. When friends become more important than links
You might have used most of the time all together and perform all of its obligations and friends put on second place ... But now your partner postpone every little thing that involves both partners to go to spend with friends. Of course, maintaining friendships is important, especially when you're in a relationship, but each excessively neglect one or the other side of the signal, which clearly indicates that something is wrong.
2nd Partner has a new obsession (and that is not you)
Once upon a time, partner enjoyed the fact that you may please, spending every minute in order to make you happy - now that has changed. On the one hand you can count the small moments of tenderness or attention. Your partner has hobbies and activities that he take away all the time. More arrives to deal with you. And his new obsession completely overwhelmed, which can be a clear sign of running away from responsibility and connection.
3. Do not take care of your appearance / weight
He used to spend / la so much time in saving ... Dinner, compound, trips. And now you're lucky if you comb or wash before you leave. If a partner does not care about their appearance and weight, it means that it does not care for it whether you like it or whether it considered attractive.
4. Higher not have time for pampering
People spend time in pat because then they feel calm, safe and connected with each other. The absence of this type of physical contact points to the absence of the need for physical connections and support.
5. More does not ask how was your day
- Hey, baby / and how was your day? - When was the last time you heard these words? If the answer is "long", it indicates a lack of interest in you and your time. Another bad sign is the absence of any kind of chatter, who meet daily small pleasures and relaxation.
6. Do not want to talk about the things that he / she tortured
If the question "what's wrong?" your partner shrugged, and if this situation repeats itself, and it is more than obvious that there is a problem - it is possible that you are no longer the first person will be able to confide in, which signals the lack of cohesion and poor communication.
7. Multiple can not hold hands
Holding hands, this little token of love, once came spontaneously. Now, he is initiated by you and is too short. This may mean that your partner feels that holding hands is not necessary, as not showing interest through small gestures.
8th feels discomfort in the vicinity of happy couples
Your partner should not long for what they have other couples. If a partner feels jealous close pairs that reflect the happiness and love, it is possible that he is not satisfied with the situation in your relationship. The last thing you want to see unhappy couples are just happy couples, what they themselves once were.
9. Do not you can look in your eyes
How is your partner hold a favorable view of your? He's hiding something from you? Or are you afraid that in those eyes see something that does not want to see? Tugu? Dissatisfaction? It is possible to view avoids because of discomfort because of his / her feelings slowly changing.
10. Do not talk about the future
Sometimes you are talking about having kids, the dog, marriage, maybe even the retired ... And today it is less. If your partner is no longer talk of a common future, perhaps it is because in his future no longer be seen with you. In addition, try to follow responses to questions posed regarding the future plans or distant future.
11th Over you do not have common interests
We all know that opposites attract and this is common in married couples. However, this contradiction becomes especially problematic if you do not have just a single common point. First will fail to understand one another. You do not have to have identical goals, but look forward to the success of partners and support you in what you consider right is of great importance.
12. According to you, acts like a friend / ica
Most people want to be their partner and their best friend, but the difference between friendships and connections in the "chemistry" and physical attraction that must be present at all times. When your partner looks like any other friend, it could mean that he no longer attractive to the erotic, romantic way.
- 21 Aug, 2016
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