MOBITEL-MOBBING

Positive and negative examples of the use of cell phones in ties. Remember them because of your relationship, health, and finance.

The longer you're together, it becomes more established communication: call while commuting, the message from lunch, sexy messages while waiting for the end of the day ... "Some couples this rhythm converted to rule," Dr. sc. Aimee Miller-Ott, author of the study rules regarding the use of mobile phones. Some of them can be linked to a lack of satisfaction in a relationship, some had no effect, while some was a reason of great satisfaction connectivity.

bad idea

"If you do not volunteer, do not zivkati or send me messages"

OK, 15 messages that come one after another can fire on the nerves, but if you tell her to leave you alone, she'll think she hiding something, says Aimee Miller-Ott. Let your ban therefore be precise ( "I can not work pisuckati messages") to be less harsh. Or send her a message from work that can now occur because you are not in a terrible traffic jams.

"Do not look at my messages and lists of calls"

If it explicitly say not to snoop on your phone, you will be convinced that your pen hear with someone else, or that she does not believe, says Dr. sc. Miller-Ott. The solution is simple: put a password on the phone.

Ideas that can pass - by agreement

"Do not call me too early / too late '

Maybe you rule does not need to: explain to her your schedule and it can be assumed that it will limit the communication when you are very busy (or sleep). If not, it's okay to propose to her time when it's convenient to hear or chatting.

"Answer my message at least for an hour"

Women are really important to them how much you will have time to answer - because the more common and polite to reply quickly.

"Leave the phone while we are together"

Is one of you addicted to the iPhone? Submit Fire smartphones during the evening you have devoted yourself. "View this as something that will strengthen your relationship," says Aimee Miller-Ott.

Good idea

"Let's not svaditi messages"

"If they try to start a serious conversation, and you tell her: 'I do not want on SMS', may think that you avoid," warns Dr. sc. Miller-Ott. Therefore, it is advisable early enough in relation to emphasize that important conversations you love to perform face to face.

• 14 Nov, 2016
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